In our polarized society, we usually feel we only have two
options when dealing with those we don’t agree with: attack or avoid. Dan White
Jr. describes a third option which is love.
There is so much I liked about this book and so many ideas and
thoughts worth sharing. I will share a few which I found so helpful in thinking
about relating to those with whom we disagree. First of all, fear is the root
of polarization. It needs to be removed for the growth of love and the
incomparable love of God. There is no comparison to the love shown in Jesus’ life.
This love is the most amazing and unfathomable when it is poured out in those
we are most frightened of. This book is the author’s journey of casting off fear
to find the path of love. Love will propel
us towards people while fear creates a barrier. Love causes us to listen and
hear another’s story while fear says we don’t have to listen.
Our time saving devices have depleted our tolerance for building
relationships. It takes time and a great
deal of effort to build those relationships. Empathy is essential to understanding
the work of Christ in the world. Humility is essential in the act of receiving
and giving love. Jesus offered compassion to everyone even his enemies. All
this is possible with the strength of the Holy Spirit.
The book is divided into 9 chapters with reflection
questions at the end of each chapter. This makes it ideal as a small group
study.
This is a book desperately needed in today’s world. I highly
recommend this book. I received this book from Moody Publishers in
exchange for this honest review.
